A Helping Hand

A Helping Hand Adoption Agency has updated their current list of waiting children.
Additionally, they are participating in the CCAA’s “Trip of Hope” program. Read more here.

For more information, contact:
Dana Woods: dana@worldadoptions.org

Whatever Wednesday

Each Wednesday we post links from the previous week that touch on special needs adoption. Our hope is that these small snapshots provide you with a glimpse of life after adopting through China’s waiting child program… both the long-term blessings and the challenges that come with parenting a child with special needs. We also hope to raise awareness about a variety of special needs.

How a kid with special needs affects your marriage: extreme honesty momma to a child with cerebral palsy Ellen at To The Max… looking at the special marital challenges that come with parenting a child who has special needs

Some answers…, second open-heart surgery and pictures!adoptive momma (China) Melinda at And Mia Makes 6… detailing the complications that arose after her daughter’s recent heart surgery

Pain and He will never Leave you or Forsake youMike, who is currently on an adoption trip (Uganda), at Joining the Journey… finding out, just days after holding her in their arms, that their new daughter Josie is HIV+

24 pounds; 33 1/5 inches adoptive momma (China) Annie at Cornbread and Chopsticks… she finally made it onto the Southern Chinese Girls growth chart!!!!

never forsaken!adoptive momma (China) Adeye at No Greater Joy Mom… after adopting her eight-year-old daughter who had ALREADY previously experienced one disruption and an autism diagnosis in China, a mom looks back on their first year together as a family

Food Issues and Ah Haadoptive momma (China) Wuxi Mommy at Our Wuxi Girl… food issues, six months after coming home, cause a mom to ask for helpful ideas (be sure to read the comments on this one)

thump… thump… thump… thumpadoptive momma (China) Ohilda at A Bouquet of Blessings… contemplating their attachment journey so far, a little over two years after arriving home

Tell Her Thisnew adoptive momma Kris, in China now adopting a daughter with the special need spina bifida, has written so many thoughtful posts during her trip, I’m just sending y’all directly there: surf around, you won’t be sorry

I Am Humanadoptive momma (Russia, Siberia and Ukraine) Christine at Smiles & Trials… the day to day reality of spina bifida, after one month home

special needs: mind your business
adoptive momma (China) Stefanie at Ni Hao Y’all… a powerful post ALL should read about deciding between the NSN and SN programs

What I didn’t knowadoptive momma (Russia) Ingrid at the group adoption blog Grown In My Heart… what she didn’t know about surgeries before adopting a child with special needs

An Amazing Girl!adoptive momma (China) Lori at Joy Unspeakable… during their first few days together as a family (older child adoption), Lori talks about names and the honeymoon period

3 AMadoptive momma (China) Shirlee McCoy at And Then There Were Seven… middle-of-the-night thoughts about her daughter’s upcoming eye surgery and their transition just after an older child adoption

What is Visual Processing Disorder?
adoptive momma (Russia and Guatemala) Marcie at the group adoption blog Grown In My Heart… children diagnosed with SPD, autism or ADHD may all “see things differently” because of visual processing disorder

New Protocol for TB Testing

There is newly released protocol for TB testing, dated September 18, 2009.
It applies to children age 10 and younger.
Visit here for more info.

story in LA Times

Chinese babies stolen by officials for foreign adoption
By Barbara Demick ::

September 20, 2009

The man from family planning liked to prowl around the mountaintop village, looking for diapers on clotheslines and listening for the cry of a hungry newborn. One day in the spring of 2004, he presented himself at Yang Shuiying’s doorstep and commanded: “Bring out the baby.”

Read more….

Whatever Wednesday

Each Wednesday we post links from the previous week that touch on special needs adoption. Our hope is that these small snapshots provide you with a glimpse of life after adopting through China’s waiting child program… both the long-term blessings and the challenges that come with parenting a child with special needs. We also hope to raise awareness about a variety of special needs.

First Day Patched and My Big Girladoptive momma (China) Sharie at Mostly Amelia… a full report on her daughter’s first few days wearing her eye patch

About Surgery Week
and Regroup!adoptive momma (China) Sonia at Proverbs 31 Hands… describing her daughter’s upcoming heart surgery

Guarding Your Information
Atilla the Mom at 5 Minutes for Special Needs… who really needs to know what information – and what do do when they don’t need it, but ask for it

What I Wanted to Say
adoptive momma (China) Shirlee McCoy at And Then There Were Seven… a recent conversation with a nosy cashier about adoption and albinism

Sentencesadoptive momma (China) Cheri at Infinite Love… recent progress despite a severe apraxia diagnosis

Back to Square One… Sort Ofadoptive momma (China) Wuxi Mom my at Our Wuxi Girl… recent potty training set-backs point to surgery this coming summer

Please Help by Donatingadoptive momma (Vietnam) Mother, Mother Ocean… one momma responds to the horrific crime committed against Lavender Banks

Whatever Wednesday

Each Wednesday we post links from the previous week that touch on special needs adoption. Our hope is that these small snapshots provide you with a glimpse of life after adopting through China’s waiting child program… both the long-term blessings and the challenges that come with parenting a child with special needs. We also hope to raise awareness about a variety of special needs.

filling out a medical checklist for special needsadoptive momma (China) snapshot at Somebody Needs a Nap!… navigating the family decisions that come when filling out a medical checklist for special needs

disclosureadoptive momma (Liberia and Ethiopia) Jennifer at to africa and home… what do you do when a young child discloses their own HIV+ status?

Jeremiah Update adoptive momma (domestic, transracial and Uganda) Spirit of Adoption at the Spirit of Adoption Blog… reporting test results for a battery of medical tests, including HIV, malaria and anemia

Waiting on the (deaf) world to changeadoptive momma (China) Sandra at The Daily Grind… thoughts after an anonymous commenter questioned their family’s decision about cochlear implants

She does it againadoptive momma (China) Monica at Our Dongguan Baby… a post-op diary

calming the senses with weighted blanketsadoptive momma (China) Weeks Ringle at Craft Nectar… a how-to guide for making a weighted blanket, perfect for little sensory-seekers

Glasses & Patch
adoptive momma (China) Sharie at Mostly Amelia… Amelia gets new glasses and an eye patch

Whatever Wednesday

Each Wednesday we post links from the previous week that touch on special needs adoption. Our hope is that these small snapshots provide you with a glimpse of life after adopting through China’s waiting child program… both the long-term blessings and the challenges that come with parenting a child with special needs. We also hope to raise awareness about a variety of special needs.

Choosing Your Child… SN Adoption… My Thoughts and Experiences
adoptive momma (China) redmaryjanes at The Seventh Diamond… advice for those waiting for and reviewing children’s files through the special needs program

the sorry and the pityadoptive momma (China) mama d at zarfing sunshine… a recent conversation at the post office leads to introspection

And They’re Off! adoptive momma (China) Michelle at Born In Our Hearts — school grade placement decisions for a child adopted at an older age

Sports and Special Needsadoptive momma (China), and Executive Director of Love Without Boundaries, Amy at A Life of Giving… a question about inclusion and sports when your child has a limb difference

Medical Update & A List of Where We Are Todayadoptive momma (China) Kimberley at The Seventh Diamond… a recent consult with a heart specialist and ways in which Sophia Jane touches the heart of her new momma

My Chunk of Love
adoptive momma (Siberia, Russia and Ukraine) Christine at Smiles & Trials… a photograph showing how much her son has changed in just one short year

“It’s not fair that I’m deaf”
adoptive momma (China) Sandra at The Daily Grind… thoughts from her daughter about deafness and glasses and fairness and life

“It hurts me more…”momma Robin at Pensieve… thoughts as her teen daughter undergoes surgery

A Big THANK YOU to Matilda Hospital and AliceAmanda, founder of The Starfish Foster Home, at the blog Throwing Starfish… a Hong Kong hospital performs an amazing surgery on one little girl named Alice

Windows to the Soulmomma The Source at Not a Significant Source… describing the vision issues of three of her four children

Consular Procedure Changes for China APs

From the Center for Adoption Policy website:

August 27, 2009

Consular Procedures Change for U.S. Parents Adopting From China

All U.S. parents adopting from China must travel to Guangzhou to obtain their new child’s visa which permits the child to come to the United States. As of October 1, 2009 the Adoptions Unit of the Guangzhou Consulate will institute new procedures which will apply to all adoptive families, whether or not they are using the I-600 orphan visa form or I-800 Hague form. The new timeline will allow consular appointments only on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. The new schedule extends the time in Guangzhou for families by one extra day as families will have their appointment on day one, their oath taking on day two and receive their visa packets after 3:30 on day three. That means that visa packets will be available on Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays. There will be no rush appointments other than for medical emergencies. In addition, all adoptive families will sign the DS-230 form in front of the adoptions officer which means that any parents required to sign the form will have to be physically present at the oath taking ceremony.

Read more HERE.

new lists

The Children Who Wait page has been updated HERE.

Wasatch has received a new private list and CHSFS has added some additional profiles to their list.

Whatever Wednesday

Each Wednesday we post links from the previous week that touch on special needs adoption. Our hope is that these small snapshots provide you with a glimpse of life after adopting through China’s waiting child program… both the long-term blessings and the challenges that come with parenting a child with special needs. We also hope to raise awareness about a variety of special needs.

Thank You!!!adoptive momma (China) Colleen at The Nut House… changes she’s seen in her daughter, who has sensory processing disorder, since they’ve made some changes in parenting her

The Stagesmomma to a child with hydrocephalus, Heather of The Extraordinary Ordinary… the stages she’s going through from denial to acceptance

More milestonesadoptive parents (China) Kevin and Violet at Taking a Break With Jake… an update six months after surgery

Heart check-up — adoptive momma (domestic, transracial) Mart Dell at Torrefaction… a heart check-up for a small PFO leads to concerns about Holt-Oram Syndrome

God is Bigger…, Started and Every Prayer Answered!!!adoptive momma (China) Shannon at The Millers Journey to Georgia Mei… their daughter’s surgery to close a hole in her heart with a dacron patch

Happy Birthday LWB Amy Eldridge, executive director of Love Without Boundaries, at A Life of Giving… happy sixth birthday, LWB

More on Alex… adoptive momma (Russia, Siberia, Ukraine) Christine at Smiles & Trials… an update on her newly adopted son Alex, as well as her other son Dennis, who has been home for a year

Kids and their friendsadoptive momma (China) Jean at There’s No Place Like Home!… friendships and the child adopted at an older age

Like Observing Wildlifeadoptive momma (Russia) Gillian at the group adoption blog Grown In My Heart… her first night with her newly adopted daughter, who happens to have Down syndrome

We interrupt this vacation for a news breakadoptive momma (Korea) Carissa at Faith, Hope and Love… the details of her daughter’s EEG yesterday